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My 16 year old daughter watches children all the time....She's first choice on most lists and is paid well for doing it....:0074
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My 16 year old daughter watches children all the time....She's first choice on most lists and is paid well for doing it....:0074
Just like any other service provider, ask some of your friends for references of babysitters they like.
That was our fear as well, we have never had a real babysitter only family has watched our kids.
How the hell can you trust a stranger to watch your kids if you can't trust family? :facepalm:
Man - I just read this for the first time - I will be praying for you and your family.
Stay strong for your wife and kids they need you more now.
Stay strong for your wife and kids they need you more now.
Saw a therapist today, man was that weird. I told her EVERYTHING including my desire to take out that piece of shit scumbag. She said that my feelings were normal and that she wasn't worried about me at all and didn't see the need to pre-book anymore appointments, just make one if I'm feeling overwhelmed.
I'd rather kick back with some brews and vent to my pals.
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I'd rather kick back with some brews and vent to my pals.
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something doesnt sound right with this
Therapists thrive on appointments. Very few would write you off in one visit especially when you are talking about taking the guy out.
They have a obligation when statements like this are made to them.
I havnt been able to respond or read all of this thread as I had something like this happen to my fiances 4 yr old many years ago.
Looking back on it , I dont feel good about what I did to the guy before the police got involved.
I think you should see someone else about this.
good luck.
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Having an adult daughter with mental problems I would say to be very careful with the therapists. There are good ones and bad ones. Make sure it is someone you feel comfortable with for you and your family. Hang in there!
I understand what you're saying. I did make clear that this was something I had thought about a LOT, and that I need to be here for my family and can't do that from jail. If I were to do anything it would have happened back on Jan 1 when I found out. This is all info that I have shared with the cops as well.
Tina has a different therapist that she talked to on Monday (who she likes) and the girls have a different therapist that only works with kids.
Things are going okay, this whole thing feels so surreal. I know it was just over 2 weeks ago however it feels like an eternity.
Aliyah seems to be waking up more at night and last night she came into our room saying she was too scared to sleep. When I asked her what she was scared of she said "Bears" I explained how bears were hibernating etc. etc. Then she asks how do they know when to wake up? Man I love kids :0074
The doctor's office calls late this afternoon, and asks for an appointment next Monday for Aliyah. When I pressed what it was about they said that Aliyah needs a hep B shot :facepalm: I can only assume that something came back from her blood/urine analysis.
Man I hate not knowing :nono:
Aliyah seems to be waking up more at night and last night she came into our room saying she was too scared to sleep. When I asked her what she was scared of she said "Bears" I explained how bears were hibernating etc. etc. Then she asks how do they know when to wake up? Man I love kids :0074
The doctor's office calls late this afternoon, and asks for an appointment next Monday for Aliyah. When I pressed what it was about they said that Aliyah needs a hep B shot :facepalm: I can only assume that something came back from her blood/urine analysis.
Man I hate not knowing :nono:
It's recommended and part of the vaccination schedule now (Hep B), so hopefully that's all it is, and it's just coinciding with all this difficult time. Both of my kids had this series of vaccinations. Call back when they open today and press them for the reason for the shot. U have a right to know, and as their father, they have to tell you. Possibly, when they did blood work on her and if she had already been vaccinated, her titer for Heb B may have been low, and she might need a booster? It also might be a precautionary measure (albeit late) following possible exposure.
I can speculate all day, but try not to worry and call them this am. Still praying for u daily.
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Thanks SixFive :0008
I tried calling this morning and couldn't get through then forgot this afternoon :facepalm:
I really hope that's all it is. :toast:
I tried calling this morning and couldn't get through then forgot this afternoon :facepalm:
I really hope that's all it is. :toast:
I'm really having a hard time to put my thoughts together for a victims impact statement. They gave a pkg for me, and Tina, and 1 for Aliyah.
Of course Aliyah is too young to completed one, so it's either me or tina that does it and Tina is having a hard enough time to do her own so it's on me. I've heard that this judge is a hardass and will more than likely be seeking the maximum sentence. But just in case Tony pleads guilty on Tuesday and just in case the judge determines sentence on the spot we need to have these prepared.
Tina and I have both been procrastinating something fierce on these things.
Tomorrow is Aliyah's appointment for a Hep B shot, and I'll inquire about the results of any test done during the examination in PG.
Of course Aliyah is too young to completed one, so it's either me or tina that does it and Tina is having a hard enough time to do her own so it's on me. I've heard that this judge is a hardass and will more than likely be seeking the maximum sentence. But just in case Tony pleads guilty on Tuesday and just in case the judge determines sentence on the spot we need to have these prepared.
Tina and I have both been procrastinating something fierce on these things.
Tomorrow is Aliyah's appointment for a Hep B shot, and I'll inquire about the results of any test done during the examination in PG.
Aliyah took her hep b shot like a trooper. She watched as the doc inserted the needle and continued to watch as he depressed the plunger and the vaccination go into her shoulder. It turns out the Hep B shot was just as a precaution.
I completed Aliyah and my victim's impact statements, just now :scared
Well off to bed. Court comes tomorrow 0930 PST
I completed Aliyah and my victim's impact statements, just now :scared
Well off to bed. Court comes tomorrow 0930 PST
Court was a wash today. It was stated how there were numerous additional charges that have been "approved" and they will all be laid/sworn next tuesday.
Cindy, the victims' services worker was there today, so I gave her our victim impact statements to look over and if anything is out of place or something we may have forgotten she will get back to us if we need to make any changes.
I couldn't get specifics, but Cindy said that there were "quite a few victims" that had come forward.
Cindy is also going to be asking the crown to go for a "no go" for our little town after he serves his sentence. Which would mean that he would never be allowed to be here again. That was one of my concerns that I expressed in my statement.
So next Tuesday 0900 is the next court date and all charges will be laid and a plea should be entered. I am praying he will plead guilty otherwise we are looking at a long drawn out process over about a year and the Trial would be 1-2 wks long.
Cindy, the victims' services worker was there today, so I gave her our victim impact statements to look over and if anything is out of place or something we may have forgotten she will get back to us if we need to make any changes.
I couldn't get specifics, but Cindy said that there were "quite a few victims" that had come forward.
Cindy is also going to be asking the crown to go for a "no go" for our little town after he serves his sentence. Which would mean that he would never be allowed to be here again. That was one of my concerns that I expressed in my statement.
So next Tuesday 0900 is the next court date and all charges will be laid and a plea should be entered. I am praying he will plead guilty otherwise we are looking at a long drawn out process over about a year and the Trial would be 1-2 wks long.
I hope they are more competent in Canada about pursuing these charges against him than they are here. Lots of no justice cases aroun here that fit this mold.
We have a 16 year old girl as our sitter who lives just down the street. Very responsible--she sits for 5 families in town--we have to plan our nights out weeks in advance to get her to sit for us.
Back to court first thing tomorrow morning at 0900 PST.
All remaining charges are supposed to be laid, and a plea entered.
I really hope he pleads guilty and saves the girls from needing to testify.
Will update tomorrow :toast:
All remaining charges are supposed to be laid, and a plea entered.
I really hope he pleads guilty and saves the girls from needing to testify.
Will update tomorrow :toast:
The list of charges were given to Tony, and because they were so extensive he requested and was granted time to review it.
Next hearing date is March 28 :facepalm:
Judge again implored him to consult counsel...
Next hearing date is March 28 :facepalm:
Judge again implored him to consult counsel...
