tpaine, don't worry -- it's not as bad as it feels right now. You will be fine. Just move on as others have said. Play your sports, or go down to campus and find some greenbud as others have suggested. Get to know those giant cans of Milwaukees Beast.
These psychiatrists are just going to drag it on and on. I know you are not going to hurt yourself or others just by your nature you have expressed on this message board (in threads other than these 'love hurts' ones). You ain't that kind of person to get violent, get that stupid.
It may take a year or three or four, but she will slip out of memory like a bad beat when the punter runs out of the back of his end zone to finish the game.
You are a good writer. You should channel your energy into writing a book or short story based loosely on this story. Take it easy, man. You got a long way to go yet.
Now somewhere in the black mountain hills of dakota
There lived a young boy named rocky raccoon
And one day his woman ran off with another guy
Hit young rocky in the eye, rocky didnt like that
He said Im gonna get that boy
So one day he walked into town
Booked himself a room in the local saloon