You hit the nail on the head. More important than cost of living, is how is it living there. I don't want to read stats on crime, etc...but I want to hear from people in the know that while a certain city may have a lot to offer, it may or may not be a good place to raise a family. We would be without family in any of the places we choose to go, and would like to know if the areas are neighborly and good people.
Where I live in north Dallas, as I stated, life is but a time to show others what you have compared to what they don't. Yes, there are great people here, but I seem to find more that could really care less about you than ones that do.
Obviously we wouldn't make a move that was a bad financial one for us. Income would have to increase significantly to move somewhere that the cost of living is dramatically more than Dallas.
But my main reason for asking is that I don't want to waste my time sending out resumes only to get the job, move there, and realize I moved my family to hell.
We want to be someplace that offers more than just shopping and sports teams. Dallas offers next to nothing when it comes to natural beauty. It is flat land and boring. Yes, the tits here are great, but again, they are part of the thing I just mentioned about showing others what you have compared to what they don't. Mo Money.
Thanks for all the comments. I hate to see anyone get pissed off, because this is just curiousity for me right now.
Thanks again.