You should just stay out of it and not get yourself involved in other peoples personal chit. You may think you're doing the right thing but it could get ugly with you smack dab in the middle of the drama. Things like this have a way of working themselves out. I'm sure that whole kharma thing will find it's way to her. just my two cents, if its worth even that.
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Why not send an anonymous letter to him telling him to keep a closer eye on his wife. That way it saves you the trouble and he can try to catch her on his own.
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Saint, this would without a doubt be the way to go in SO many cases.... just not so sure if it would fully protect the friendship in this situation should additional info ever come out.
eg...... " I hear you been cheating on me BITCH" ...... "what?? did that slime WORM rat me off?" ..... "HUH??? " ...... " Well, it MUST have been him, he was the only one that saw me!!"
(this was why i asked if she KNEW that he saw it
)would the hubby be mad if he knew that a friend of his knew and didn't tell him?? ugh..... sometimes it must be better to go thru life with your eyes shut
Well, I would steer clear of needless drama. If he were a close friend then maybe...and only if you had snapped a photo.
I think countinguy hit the nail on the head. Once you told your wife...consider it... over. It'll get back to them.
Btw, is it a Hyundai?
I think countinguy hit the nail on the head. Once you told your wife...consider it... over. It'll get back to them.
Btw, is it a Hyundai?
After you tell him and if he wants to divorce her tell him to buy her a ticket to kuwait we'll convoy down to get her I know about 4,700 men looking for woman like her.
10-1 Odds though he stays with him even after you tell him, and you may jeopardize a friendship by doing so. And she will be the one that pushes that issue.
You gotta ask yourself is it worth risking a freindship over.
I myself would tell him and not worry one bit about it.
10-1 Odds though he stays with him even after you tell him, and you may jeopardize a friendship by doing so. And she will be the one that pushes that issue.
You gotta ask yourself is it worth risking a freindship over.
I myself would tell him and not worry one bit about it.
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Been in a similiar situation myself a couple of years ago where my mrs. at the time was caught jacking around with some dude in the parking lot. A couple of my buddies saw what was going on and filled me in when I got back in town. I would have been pissed if they hadn't of told me and i was to find out later on that they knew about it. So from my experiences, shoot him straight about the whole deal so he doesn't find out the hard way later down the track.
Honestly dude you have to have some compassion for all involved. The wife is definitely wrong but who knows what led her to that point. There may be some situations or circumstance that caused all this. Make a conscientious decision, weigh all options and facts. Remember, this is a family you are talking about............a man and friend...........and his WHORE,SLUT, TRAMP, C*CKSUCKER of a wife.
Do this.........take him out for a friendly game of golf when he tees up tell him you want to make a friendly wager. When he asks on what tell him this, "anyone who's wife was blowin ole so and so in the parking lot last week wins a dollar" then tell him you owe him a dollar. Haul ass back to the AMC Pacer and get to his house and tell the whore that you will tell on her if she doesn't clean the whistle.
Of course both of them will probably hate you forever and want to kill you but hell.............when else are you going to get a blowjob for a dollar??? You can always find new friends :grouphug:
Do this.........take him out for a friendly game of golf when he tees up tell him you want to make a friendly wager. When he asks on what tell him this, "anyone who's wife was blowin ole so and so in the parking lot last week wins a dollar" then tell him you owe him a dollar. Haul ass back to the AMC Pacer and get to his house and tell the whore that you will tell on her if she doesn't clean the whistle.
Of course both of them will probably hate you forever and want to kill you but hell.............when else are you going to get a blowjob for a dollar??? You can always find new friends :grouphug:
I think I am speaking for everybody when I say, please tell us what happened and how it turned out. Personally, my advice would have been to tell him cause if it was me, I would want to know and I would not shoot the messenger. I might shoot my wife and the guy she blew but not the messenger.
Thanks in advance.
Thanks in advance.
Actually he found out from his wife-(this is what I am told)..I guess she has left him for this clown-so.....problem solved and I am glad I did not have to be involved....
See how nicely things work themselves out......If you had told him, then you would have been the one blamed for the break-up........Those windows can be plenty expensive to fix in those glass houses...........
Worm- fawk her and that guy she was blowing...I'm sure this isn't the first time she has cheated...show your partner the respect he deserves by telling him...and the no kids factor is huge...this guy could always remarry and find a woman that respects him or maybe even the two can work things out...One way I would look at it is years down the road this guy could end up thanking you for telling him...but understandable not wanting to tell him no one likes to be the bearer on bad news
