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greggraffin

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I will be away from here to tend to some personal issues, have no idea when I will be back. I got some serious issues to take care of. Long road back but its time to get my life in order. Not trying to be an attention whore just wanted to share since I consider you all my friends. I never thought getting divorced would affect me this much but it has. New and improved Hedgie will be back soon...

Thanks guys for the nice replies, I hit rock bottom Thursday night, it was bad, I am just glad I didn't get shot and killed, robbed and or drugged, I am fine I just need to get some professional counseling

when i see you post, the chorus to the depeche mode song "i just cant get enough" pops in my head
 

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Hedge, just remember that over half of marriage end in divorce. That's a lot of divorcees running around and they are doing fine. It's like any kind of loss, you've got to get through the stages. My advice would be to cut alcohol consumption.
 

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Thanks guys for the nice replies, I hit rock bottom Thursday night, it was bad, I am just glad I didn't get shot and killed, robbed and or drugged, I am fine I just need to get some professional counseling

How the heck did you hit rock bottom?
 

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How the heck did you hit rock bottom?

I will tell the story later. I need to make some positive changes in my life. Life is getting away from me if I continue on this path. I need people in my life that care about me not people trying to take adavantge of me.
 

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I think Hedgey went to the strip club, got sweet talked by a Ho, then got robbed.

Just stay out of the strip clubs, stay off the booze, take the kids to Disney, and get a puppy. You will be fine. :0008
 

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I will tell the story later. I need to make some positive changes in my life. Life is getting away from me if I continue on this path. I need people in my life that care about me not people trying to take adavantge of me.

So when are you going away?
 

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Actually, I think Hedgie is being honest here and is feeling the crunch of depression and several other issues that can get anyone down. Not surprisingly, he chose to post it on here because that is just his nature. Hopefully, Hedgie can get to a better place. It seems to me that he is/was reaching out and I just don't want to pile on. Regardless of his internet persona, he is still a human being. JMO
 
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I think Hedgey went to the strip club, got sweet talked by a Ho, then got robbed.

That is exactly what happened. Last time I ever go into a strip club. Bad lapse in judgment and other issues I need to get in control of, I could have been killed. All stems from being depressed, angry and alone. I am going to counseling this week for some help. I never felt like this before in my life.

I have been mean to people here for no reason and that is not right. Later guys
 

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That is exactly what happened. Last time I ever go into a strip club. Bad lapse in judgment and other issues I need to get in control of, I could have been killed. All stems from being depressed, angry and alone. I am going to counseling this week for some help. I never felt like this before in my life. I have been mean to people here, that is not right, we should all be friends.

You don't need counseling. Call me and I'll give you better advice for free. Unless you are going to a 50+ year old psychiatrist, don't waste your time.

Quit feeling sorry for yourself and leaving yourself wide open to be taken advantage of.

Seriously, give me a call and I'll set you straight. Or call Old School.

You're going through shit that most guys went through in their 20's. This stuff is new to you and you need an education.

You're fine, dude.
 

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have to agree with Cry, hedge


get things sorted out, I went and talked to someone one time and it helped me through a difficult time for me.


in the meantime , stay out of strip clubs and bars .

yu will not find any good in either.
 

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That is exactly what happened. Last time I ever go into a strip club. Bad lapse in judgment and other issues I need to get in control of, I could have been killed. All stems from being depressed, angry and alone. I am going to counseling this week for some help. I never felt like this before in my life.

I have been mean to people here for no reason and that is not right. Later guys

Dude, call jack.........and actually listen to what he says:0008
for the first god damn time hedge, listen to his advice "Hard Head" :0074
 
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