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Everyone always says that you would do this and that if it was your child.:nono: It hit home and i thank you for being a great father and putting your innocent children first. I wil add your family to the prayer line my mom runs up in Iowa as a friend of mine. Very sad these things happen, you handled it great, good luck with the court system on putting him away or getting him the help he needs, seems that is where society needs the most help understanding, is with mental illiness. Again thank you for putting family first!

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Thoughts and Prayers to your family. Hopefully, he will accept responsibility for his actions and not put your family through any more greive then he already has.

Stay strong and be a role model for your girls. Men don't need to get even with their hands, you did that right thing and I am amazed at your composure and commend you on being a GREAT dad. Also, your wife should not blame herself, if you cant trust your own brother to watch your children then how could you ever trust a stranger.

As a Father of two little girls my stomach hurts that you are going through this and probably while I continue to ramble my thoughts to you.

If you need anything please reach out.

Take care.
 

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Sad to read this. Powerful man you are not to retaliate, and being a role model to your children. I couldnt imagine being in this situation. Going to police was right thing to do.
 

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Awful thing to hear. As far as Aliyah is concerned you may want to consider a therapist specializing in trauma for her age range. If you see changes in hygiene habits, trust issues, anger (probably and unfortunately directed at herself) or personality changes this would be a good idea.

Our prayers are with you.
 

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I item I forgot to add....

Tony has been living with Tina's sister Tammy and her husband with their 2 children, Gavin (8) and Jenna (5)

The police are interviewing Jenna this morning.

From talking to Tammy, apparently there are previous complaints on file and had the police known his whereabouts he would have been picked up.........................
 

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Very sickening situation made worse being a family member that commited the crime. Sorry to hear. Stay strong. Prayers for your family.
 

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I item I forgot to add....

Tony has been living with Tina's sister Tammy and her husband with their 2 children, Gavin (8) and Jenna (5)

The police are interviewing Jenna this morning.

Hopefully they interview both children, you never know what might have happened to the boy as well......
 

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Thoughts are with your family as you go through this difficult time. That is something no parent wants to go through.
 

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I'm sitting at my computer with tears, goosebumps etc reading your story. Arrow is right we all think what we would do if confronted w/the same situation, but we don't.

I cannot say that I could handle it like you, but wow what a man, father and husband to rationally put your family first, instead of KILLING HIM.

Nobody can put themselves in your shoes, unless this has happened to them. One thing is certain, you have raised a smart, strong little girl that had the courage to say in her mind, I'm not letting that monster get away with this.

As a father of 5, I cannot fathom going thru what your family is at this time, but I will include all of you in my prayers.

God Bless

Tom
 

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Tony has admitted to the police that he "looked" at Alexandra while she had no clothes on, so there are now another set of charges pending.

We are headed to see the family doctor shortly for an examination. I pray there was no penetration.
 

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Tony has admitted to the police that he "looked" at Alexandra while she had no clothes on, so there are now another set of charges pending.

We are headed to see the family doctor shortly for an examination. I pray there was no penetration.

I have zero idea how you are dealing with something like this.

All I can do is hope for the best for you and your family.
 
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