Prayers Please!
- Thread starter canuckfan77
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Just horrible.
Praying for your little girls, your wife and for your strength. Kids are so resilient and they will get through this. Just keep being a great father.
Praying for your little girls, your wife and for your strength. Kids are so resilient and they will get through this. Just keep being a great father.
So after waiting 45 minutes at the Dr office, I find out that he doesn't want to do an examination. We don't have a pediatrician in town so he said we need to go to Prince George, which is about 90 mins away and go to the emergency room. The pediatrician will do an examination under anesthetic so they won't remember. I think maybe this is for the best.
Thoughts and prayers your way.
You. Are one STRONG man.
All the best and make sure you take care of
YOURSELF also.
You. Are one STRONG man.
All the best and make sure you take care of
YOURSELF also.
Thoughts and prayers to you and your family. I have three, two girls, ages 7 and soon to be 6 - I don't know if I could've shown the strength and courage you did.
I wish the best to you, your family, and especially that brave little girl.
I wish the best to you, your family, and especially that brave little girl.
I need to take care of my family right now, I don't have the luxury of worrying about myself.
But once this crisis has passed and we can start getting on with our lives, I will then start to look at taking care of myself. :0008
Think your doing everything right...like someone already said seek a some help for Aliyah. Her school should have someone also to help council her and you guys...in the US almost every school district has a social worker that works with the student,siblings and parents....thoughts and prayers are with you....
Canuck,,I had tears streaming down my face as I read this,,,I am also a father and the love we have for our children is greater than anything Ive ever known,,I am a God believing man,,I ve said prayers for your daughter and your family,,,
Wow! I don't even know how I would respond not having kids but what a piece of shit he is. Stay strong for your family man and everything will work itself out.
Sickening, that was difficult to read. You're definitely a VERY STRONG person to handle this situation in the fashion that you did.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult ordeal.
kneifl
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult ordeal.
kneifl
Canuck there are no words that anyone can say at this time to smooth this one over for you at the moment. You have to be one very bitter man at this time and as well you should be. If there is any "good" to be said about this, hopefully your girls are young enough that they will forget this ever happened and not have any long term effects from it.
Like some have previously noted, it took a big man not to do something catastrophic. Having that control ensures you of being a father the rest of your life because it would have been too easy to just blow the guys head off. I know you still want to kill that fucker, but try to keep it together for the people in your life that mean the most to you.
Positive vibes to you man. Hang in there.
Like some have previously noted, it took a big man not to do something catastrophic. Having that control ensures you of being a father the rest of your life because it would have been too easy to just blow the guys head off. I know you still want to kill that fucker, but try to keep it together for the people in your life that mean the most to you.
Positive vibes to you man. Hang in there.
Jenna's interview turned out to be inconclusive, however once Tammy and Damion had the kids at home and told them that Tony had to go away and Jenna revealed what Tony had done to her. It was all of the same stuff he had done to Aliyah.
After close to 6!!! hrs at the hospital both girls have been examined and no penetration has taken place, thank God.
I was in the office while Aliyah's interview with the pediatrician commenced. I told her it was important to tell the doctor the truth. He asked her to tell him what happened with uncle tony. She covered her mouth and turned bright red, then quickly composed herself and pointed at me and said "I want you to leave!" It broke my heart again for the countless time in the last day and a half.
The pediatrician informed me that she was very co-operative and very thorough and descriptive of what happened. Which made be proud. It kills me that she was embarrassed to the point where she couldn't have me in the room...
With each passing hour I am more encouraged by her bravery and am more and more convinced that she will make it through this ordeal due in no small part to her strength of character.
I can't wait to start the counselling for her so that instead of repeatedly reliving this horrible ordeal, she can start to be given the tools to overcome it.
Thank you all for your replies and prayers, it encourages me much :0008
After close to 6!!! hrs at the hospital both girls have been examined and no penetration has taken place, thank God.
I was in the office while Aliyah's interview with the pediatrician commenced. I told her it was important to tell the doctor the truth. He asked her to tell him what happened with uncle tony. She covered her mouth and turned bright red, then quickly composed herself and pointed at me and said "I want you to leave!" It broke my heart again for the countless time in the last day and a half.
The pediatrician informed me that she was very co-operative and very thorough and descriptive of what happened. Which made be proud. It kills me that she was embarrassed to the point where she couldn't have me in the room...
With each passing hour I am more encouraged by her bravery and am more and more convinced that she will make it through this ordeal due in no small part to her strength of character.
I can't wait to start the counselling for her so that instead of repeatedly reliving this horrible ordeal, she can start to be given the tools to overcome it.
Thank you all for your replies and prayers, it encourages me much :0008
Very sad to hear this man, there was nothing you could do to prevent this so you and your wife shouldnt feel guilty. You are doing the right thing and i am sorry this has happened to you and your family.
I wish you and your family all the best, my friend. It's awesome to know that you have such a special strong little girl! 
very difficult to read this. it sounds like you are doing all the right things. god bless, thoughts and prayers are with you and your family...
No amount of counseling or anything else could make up for the best thing she has in this world- an amazing father. You've got everything she needs: strength, compassion, wisdom, love. For her to even speak up to begin with shows the character you've developed within her already.
Just keep doing what you're doing, Dad.
