I don't know how to say this, so I'm just going to say it....
Last night my wife (Tina) and I (Mike) went to a New Years Eve party with our friends Ed and Janette (who are closer than family.). We have 4 children Kaitlin (10) Joshua (9) Aliyah (7) Alexandra (5). Aliyah has bronchitis. We didn't want to expose everyone else and especially our hosts' children (who are our nieces and nephews.) We enlisted Tina's brother (Tony) to come watch Aliyah in our home, and we left Alexandra home as well due to her age as well as we wanted Aliyah to have a playmate.
Upon our return after lunch this afternoon the girls excitedly shared with us all of the fun things they had done with uncle tony, such as watching Madagascar 3 on uncle tony's laptop with popcorn etc. and staying up until 9:00. Since Kaitlin and Joshua were with us all evening we let them spend some time with uncle tony, visiting and playing outside before I drove him home at 2:30.
Upon my return home, I found my wife teary eyed and she asked for a hug, which I quickly obliged and told me she needed to talk to me in our bedroom. My first thought was who died? She started sobbing uncontrollably and recalled to me the conversation she had just had with Aliyah. Aliyah said that he licked her vagina and he wanted her to suck his penis, but she didn't want to. Aliyah also had said that they watched a movie with people doing that and Tina said she was using words like pussy and fuck, which she had never done before. Tina said that she called Ed and Janette and Ed was on his way to our house. While waiting for Ed I ran through the normal gamut of emotion; guilt, murderous rage, guilt, rage. I took Aliyah into my room and asked her to tell me what she just told her mom. Aliyah repeated what I had previously stated then asked when uncle Tony would babysit again?!? I assured her that uncle tony would never be babysitting her again. She said "oh, because uncle tony said that next time he babysat he would try to bring enough money to put me in ballet lessons to pay for licking my vagina.
*During this time Alexandra was napping*
After approx 10-15 minutes Ed arrived and asked what I wanted to do. By this time I had envisioned the multiple ways of killing and disposing of tony, before a rational thought came to me.... If my little girl is going to make it through this, she is going to need her daddy. As EASY as it would have been to beat the shit out of tony and/or kill him, for her and the woman she will one day become we drove straight to the police station and I gave my statement of what happened. I WOULD NOT be able to help Aliyah through this from behind bars!! I will not let that sick fuck cause me to be absent from 1 minute of her life. Janette had come to my house to stay with my wife. Ed had to go to work a night shift.
At 7:00 I took both girls to the police station to give their statements to A corporal who is specially trained to interview children in this situation, while I waited outside with my friend Matt. The officers were awesome with the girls and they got to "adopt" special stuffed animals. After their statements the office took me into the interview room and told me what a strong smart girl Aliyah was, and they had never seen a child so composed and detailed while recalling the events. The officer also said that he wasn't 100% sure but he did not think anything happened with Alexandra. Both girls really wanted to see the jail, so we went on a short tour and the girls actually went in a cell. They both thought that it was hilarious that the toilet was next to the bed. I was told that the police were headed out to pick up and hold tony within the hour. When I got home Janette left to pick up her kids from her mom's house and go home.
I took my girls home and they had snack and went to bed. I was called and informed that the police had Tony in custody and they were going to hold him while waiting for a writ of summons? from the crown prosecutor. Victims services will be calling in the morning and I should be hearing from the officers as well.
My two older kids don't know anything as of yet, but I can tell that they know something is going on. We have been careful to only talk when we know, they can't hear.
I am asking for prayers for Aliyah and Alexandra, as well as my wife who is guilt ridden. I could also use prayer for guidance during this upcoming process.
If you believe in God, then please pray. If you do not believe in God please comment your well wishes. Please do not comment about sending light, positive thoughts, positive vibes.
Above all, if you have kids give them a big hug and make sure they KNOW how much you love them.
Thanks for letting me vent :0008
Last night my wife (Tina) and I (Mike) went to a New Years Eve party with our friends Ed and Janette (who are closer than family.). We have 4 children Kaitlin (10) Joshua (9) Aliyah (7) Alexandra (5). Aliyah has bronchitis. We didn't want to expose everyone else and especially our hosts' children (who are our nieces and nephews.) We enlisted Tina's brother (Tony) to come watch Aliyah in our home, and we left Alexandra home as well due to her age as well as we wanted Aliyah to have a playmate.
Upon our return after lunch this afternoon the girls excitedly shared with us all of the fun things they had done with uncle tony, such as watching Madagascar 3 on uncle tony's laptop with popcorn etc. and staying up until 9:00. Since Kaitlin and Joshua were with us all evening we let them spend some time with uncle tony, visiting and playing outside before I drove him home at 2:30.
Upon my return home, I found my wife teary eyed and she asked for a hug, which I quickly obliged and told me she needed to talk to me in our bedroom. My first thought was who died? She started sobbing uncontrollably and recalled to me the conversation she had just had with Aliyah. Aliyah said that he licked her vagina and he wanted her to suck his penis, but she didn't want to. Aliyah also had said that they watched a movie with people doing that and Tina said she was using words like pussy and fuck, which she had never done before. Tina said that she called Ed and Janette and Ed was on his way to our house. While waiting for Ed I ran through the normal gamut of emotion; guilt, murderous rage, guilt, rage. I took Aliyah into my room and asked her to tell me what she just told her mom. Aliyah repeated what I had previously stated then asked when uncle Tony would babysit again?!? I assured her that uncle tony would never be babysitting her again. She said "oh, because uncle tony said that next time he babysat he would try to bring enough money to put me in ballet lessons to pay for licking my vagina.
*During this time Alexandra was napping*
After approx 10-15 minutes Ed arrived and asked what I wanted to do. By this time I had envisioned the multiple ways of killing and disposing of tony, before a rational thought came to me.... If my little girl is going to make it through this, she is going to need her daddy. As EASY as it would have been to beat the shit out of tony and/or kill him, for her and the woman she will one day become we drove straight to the police station and I gave my statement of what happened. I WOULD NOT be able to help Aliyah through this from behind bars!! I will not let that sick fuck cause me to be absent from 1 minute of her life. Janette had come to my house to stay with my wife. Ed had to go to work a night shift.
At 7:00 I took both girls to the police station to give their statements to A corporal who is specially trained to interview children in this situation, while I waited outside with my friend Matt. The officers were awesome with the girls and they got to "adopt" special stuffed animals. After their statements the office took me into the interview room and told me what a strong smart girl Aliyah was, and they had never seen a child so composed and detailed while recalling the events. The officer also said that he wasn't 100% sure but he did not think anything happened with Alexandra. Both girls really wanted to see the jail, so we went on a short tour and the girls actually went in a cell. They both thought that it was hilarious that the toilet was next to the bed. I was told that the police were headed out to pick up and hold tony within the hour. When I got home Janette left to pick up her kids from her mom's house and go home.
I took my girls home and they had snack and went to bed. I was called and informed that the police had Tony in custody and they were going to hold him while waiting for a writ of summons? from the crown prosecutor. Victims services will be calling in the morning and I should be hearing from the officers as well.
My two older kids don't know anything as of yet, but I can tell that they know something is going on. We have been careful to only talk when we know, they can't hear.
I am asking for prayers for Aliyah and Alexandra, as well as my wife who is guilt ridden. I could also use prayer for guidance during this upcoming process.
If you believe in God, then please pray. If you do not believe in God please comment your well wishes. Please do not comment about sending light, positive thoughts, positive vibes.
Above all, if you have kids give them a big hug and make sure they KNOW how much you love them.
Thanks for letting me vent :0008
