If somone texted flirty shit like this to my wife I would be pissed.. This fucker needs an ass beating
wife- paranoid or justified concern?
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If somone texted flirty shit like this to my wife I would be pissed.. This fucker needs an ass beating
Well I didn't look long enough to check the timeline. I don't know if it was sent back to back or 30 hours apart referring to two totally different things?
Don't confront her about anything. If you want your wife, fall back in love with her like you did before you got married and start paying as much attention to her as possible.
Make her your whole world again and she won't be looking around anymore even if she is at the present time.
Call her every night while you're at work, tell her how much you miss her and can't wait to get home to be with her.
When you are home those 8 nights with her, give her all of your attention like you did before you got married.
Watch how things change at home.
I think I might start doing this myself.
Things get stale, make them fresh and exciting again.
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He actually isn't too far from me?????
Is this guy available for a day labor hire situation type thing? I'm still waiting on Jack to do my frigging flower bed, it could be years. I might as well try this guy, he sounds good and I'm not married.
The fact he did his flower bed in one day at least eliminates one guy?! Just saying.:shrug:
In all seriousness BBB
I totally understand your concerns but there really is a simple solution that doesn't require you trading in your manhood. simply sit her down, tell her that her actions are hurting your feelings. Accuse her of nothing and in fact tell her that she may continue texting dude if that is what she really wants but that it comes at the cost of your feelings. Just because you feel some behavior is inappropriate doesn't make it so, however, it is certainly a reason to address the situation and make some changes to your communication levels.
Hope that helps,
FDC
Does he have a business card.....okay nevermind.....
Have a conversation with her about your relationship. Tell her that you have concerns about her co worker. Ask her questions... how close are you guys? Should I be concerned? How often do you guys call or text each other while away from work? You already have the answers, see if she is honest or not:shrug:
If she is not honest, Houston, you have a problem. At that point, you should confess that you have been checking and take the situation from there. Whether you work it out or not, you need clarity since your away from home often.
GL what ever you decide :0008
If she is not honest, Houston, you have a problem. At that point, you should confess that you have been checking and take the situation from there. Whether you work it out or not, you need clarity since your away from home often.
GL what ever you decide :0008
I bet she is deleting hers to him, what about the last ones to him? awoke the beast talking about you? She probably sent him one saying your paying more attention to her, etc and he responded back with that. buy one of those spying kits you can spy on a cell phone, I do not know if they work, but I would do that if I were you, and I am not kidding...or call his wife and I guarantee it will stop:0074
Doesn?t matter.. the "grrrrrr" is totally flirty... This is not normal. Can you think of any other married friend of yours who has a "friend" relationship with another woman? One that he texts constantly? I cant. I doubt there is a single guy on here at Jacks who has a true girl "friend"..
The reason is MEN have no need for female friends. If we are not screwing them we have no real use for them. Its in our genetic makeup. Sure Im friendly with my buddies wives but why the hell would I want to text any of them? To talk about football??? To talk about a woman I saw on an the elevator with a fantastic ass?? Guys have friends so they can talk about guy stuff.. Why would this guy want a plutonic female friend?? It makes no sense.
No happily married man talks to other women like this...
Speak up before he gets in her head and its too late.
Always remember the definition of a perfect woman:
A perfect woman is about four foot high with a flat head so you can set your beer on it.1
Eddie
1. some add "with no teeth" but I consider that over-involvement.
A perfect woman is about four foot high with a flat head so you can set your beer on it.1
Eddie
1. some add "with no teeth" but I consider that over-involvement.
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I said from the get go that you need to give her the things she needs both physical and emotional but that last text was out of line.
If it was me and I know everyone is not the same, I would be at his house having a talk with him. The dude is a f'ing pussy for flirting with someone elses pregnant wife. Too bad his wife doesn't know. It's not fair for her either. Once you get older I believe there aren't many good reasons to fight someone but messing with kids or your wife are two that I feel very strongly about. I say go over there and put the beast to sleep.
If it was me and I know everyone is not the same, I would be at his house having a talk with him. The dude is a f'ing pussy for flirting with someone elses pregnant wife. Too bad his wife doesn't know. It's not fair for her either. Once you get older I believe there aren't many good reasons to fight someone but messing with kids or your wife are two that I feel very strongly about. I say go over there and put the beast to sleep.
After hearing that text you need to confront her and then him before you leave again. That is way over the top. Sounds as if you may have a fight on your hands to keep her. Feel for ya man. Been there done that. One of the low points in my life but all turned out well for me as I won my wife back and have been married for 33 years.
Good luck
Good luck
better yet, show up at her office unexpectedly and maybe send her flowers to the office... this guy wants to fuck your wife...
I have a friend that is a female . I mean she is now. Technically speaking.
Yeah we textall the time. She probably feels safe around me due to my beliefs . Then again, it doesn't matter as she is not a virgin and has the ankles of my childhood camel Sayud.:scared :scared
Yeah we textall the time. She probably feels safe around me due to my beliefs . Then again, it doesn't matter as she is not a virgin and has the ankles of my childhood camel Sayud.:scared :scared
6 months from now after baby weight falls off, he is out on his job for 22 days a month and she gets lonely then we will see :0003
