Now that is some fucked up shit right there. I think if you have to resort to key logger programs and iPhone tracking software, you should just pack your bags. Then again, I know some women who's husband is bouncing around on them and they do this shit because they like the drama. Now THAT is fucked up.
B, good luck to you.
Wow, I just read a couple threads in there. I would go ballistic if I ever discovered someone using these tactics on me. I would probably wind up in prison.