I coukd feel my guts knotting up while reading this. Man there is nothing to say that hasn't been said already. Sorry for your loss!
Less than 36 hours away.....
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hedge you just aint right sometimes.
I had another live in girlfriend who I was with for 2 years. She got religion and said she had to break it off and she was leaving.
I gave her the car she was driving which was in my name and paid for.
She didnt have a car . I had two more.
Dont you see the forest for the trees.
That is the fourth time you have said that as well as 5 more times in another similiar thread awhile back.
He has stated clearly that he aint a dick.
So your wife left and she never called once and it made you about crazy.
well so be it.
you got the woman revenge factor in your heart. You will need to get that out to have any further relationships worth a shit.
your in the darkness and you dont even know it
She called for child support, settlement offers, to bitch at me...Karma is a bitch :sadwave:
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Hey guys....
Woke up pretty early this morning (been much more the norm for me lately). It's weird knowing this is the last day that I'll be here with her. Today, we pack up her car and make sure that she has everything this needs for a safe trip home.
I think everyone gives advice based on situations that they perceive in their heads and based on experiences they have had. I really appreciate everything that all of you have said. I honestly can't say what tomorrow holds once she leaves. I'm not a guy that wallows in self pity. I will absolutely grieve and hurt....but if I didn't, what the hell was my marriage really about, after all.
She and I are sitting here, having coffee together, like we have so many times. It hurts knowing that this will be that very last time. Today will be full of those very last times for things. When she woke up, I met her with a big hug....no words....as I figure my hug told the story.
Ya know, time and life are just both funny animals. No matter what happens, life keeps going on....and time keeps on passing. I'm so grateful to all of you that care. What I type on here is genuine, raw emotion. Shit....I've wiped tears away several times just in typing this entry now. It's just how I'm made though. I have a big heart....my Mom gave me that gift. It has the ability to love greatly....but also hurt equally as much. Unfortunately, the latter is true right now.
As far as contacting her in the future, I know myself well enough to know that in the beginning, she and I will talk here and there. We still care about each other and want to know the other person is ok. We have that type of relationship. This isn't a situation where either of us are walking away with anger. I know she's hurting....and I know I am hurting, I can't say that she and I will talk a lot in the more distant future as I don't see why that would do much good. She needs to find what she's looking for...I need to live my life....and sometimes, the hardest thing to do is the right thing to do.
I know I'll be back to write more later on. For now, I just need some more coffee with my wife
Wow, just going through or reading all of this now. Having gone through a loss of my own, albeit much different circumstances, but a loss is a loss in my opinion, I guess I can say time has made it easier. I am not going to sugarcoat it for you, it sucked and still does. Mine cant ever come back, yours might. I think you are doing the right thing by being supportive, and she just may realize how much that really means when its gone.
Now, what I can say, I have kept myself crazily busy, 2 new jobs, many new hobbies, and have surrounded myself with many many QUALITY people that cared to pick me up off the ground numerous times. My recommendation is to do the same, if you want fire away in here. Its great to get it out and not dwell on it.
All the best. Easier said than done, but stay strong.
jr11
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pp--sorry to hear this but one thing is remember to take are of your self both physically and mentally. Eat well, exercise, hang around with good friends, etc.
everybody gets scared of life sometimes.
Its usually not such a bad thing.
So true KOD, so true...
GL in the morning buddy :0008
Hope you have plans to play golf or do something besides hang out at your place...... All the best :0074
Hope you have plans to play golf or do something besides hang out at your place...... All the best :0074
Well...her car is now packed. All that's left is to go around one last time and make sure she's not forgetting anything......get some sleep......and then off she goes. I'm beat, physically and emotionally right now. Dreading watching her car pull away.....but I won't hang around my place after she leaves. I'm gonna get out and enjoy the day (as best i can). I may even stay out for the night at a friend's house or something....just to stay away.
Deep breaths......deeeeeep breaths.
Deep breaths......deeeeeep breaths.
Bart: Looking forward to seeing you this July. Please spend some time on your short game and I'll work on my chick rangling. You're one of my favorites, even if you snore like a mother-fucker!
Thinkin' 'bout ya bro.
Hang tough tomorrow.
We're moving on the 20th. Nice place. You're welcome anytime.
You better know that!
Noley
Best wishes, Bart. U remind me a lot of me.
It sucks to hurt; I did for many years. Hope u have peace. No matter what anybody says, it's never wrong to be nice. You'll always be classy, and that's why you are a top notch man (even if you do like the 'heels).
It sucks to hurt; I did for many years. Hope u have peace. No matter what anybody says, it's never wrong to be nice. You'll always be classy, and that's why you are a top notch man (even if you do like the 'heels).
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thinking of ya..
don't let "what if's" ruin the day..
stay positive...
she got what she wanted.
can't give a women more than that..
don't let "what if's" ruin the day..
stay positive...
she got what she wanted.
can't give a women more than that..
Well.....There are few times in my life where I'm rendered speechless. Now......one of those times.
She left about 30 minutes ago
She left about 30 minutes ago
