Wow, I can't believe this. Stay calm and support your family. I know what you want to do but that won't help matters. Prayers.
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Wow, I can't believe this. Stay calm and support your family. I know what you want to do but that won't help matters. Prayers.
- Apr 28, 2006
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Sickening beyond belief. Just hang in there, you are in everybody's prayers. As one of the few female posters here, I think I can add a bit of additional insight due to the many abused women I've known through my life.
As you aleady expressed, counseling/therapy is beneficial for giving the girls the tools to deal with what happened going forward. That's the best thing you can do along with continuing to provide a safe, stable and loving home for them.
The good news is that they are young and children are very resilient, especially when they have a strong support system. It's also good that this was caught early, and can be addressed early in life. It's much worse when it never comes out until adulthood, and there's been no help along the way to deal with the issues.
Your family will get through this, and I commend you for not taking matters into your own hands. There's nothing wrong with breaking down, it's normal and what any normal person would do under the circumstances. Just continue to be the rock and support system for your girls going forward, I have no doubt they will be fine with such a good family and support system.
My daughter is 5 and if something like this happened to her I don't know what would I do. I can tell you with 100% certainty if this happened to her and the person that did this to her was released on bail that there would be no need for a trial. To add this fact to the pain you are already going through would be too much for me.
What Layinwood did to that kid that touched his daughter would be a slap on the arm to what I would do if this monster was walking the streets after I let the "justice" system deal with him first.
My prayers to you and your family Canuckfan77.
What Layinwood did to that kid that touched his daughter would be a slap on the arm to what I would do if this monster was walking the streets after I let the "justice" system deal with him first.
My prayers to you and your family Canuckfan77.
I know what you're saying Mike. if anyone touched one of my grandkids I wouldn't be able to control myself. I have the kids every day and they are the most precious thing in my life.
canuck, you have very brave children.
I am sick to my stomach, and cannot imagine how you feel, so just know I am praying for you.
disgusted.
your daughter is so brave.
keep a level head...your children need you and you have to assure you are around for them.
I am a big believer that all get what is coming to them.
god bless buddy.
I am sick to my stomach, and cannot imagine how you feel, so just know I am praying for you.
disgusted.
your daughter is so brave.
keep a level head...your children need you and you have to assure you are around for them.
I am a big believer that all get what is coming to them.
god bless buddy.
FUCK THIS GUY
canuck buddy I am so sorry
my daughter Is 3.
you are a better person than I...
keep a level head buddy. I will continue to pray for you.
canuck buddy I am so sorry
my daughter Is 3.
you are a better person than I...
keep a level head buddy. I will continue to pray for you.
That is exactly it, Bob. We are both fun loving, easy to get along with guys who need a lot to get us seeing red. This is one of those things.
I can't imagine there is a jury out there that would convict me if this were to happen. I hug my daughter every day and tell her I love her and hope I never have to find out.
canuck,
I forgot to mention, how brave and good of a father I think you are
I will continue to send prayers
your children will be ok. Continue to remind yourself of that.
working with children for 6 years, I have learned they are extremely resilient. I pray you all can move past this as a family, and continue to live normal lives
god bless bud
I forgot to mention, how brave and good of a father I think you are
I will continue to send prayers
your children will be ok. Continue to remind yourself of that.
working with children for 6 years, I have learned they are extremely resilient. I pray you all can move past this as a family, and continue to live normal lives
god bless bud
So was tony living out of state and local police were looking for him?
Did police tell Tammy about previous complaints ?
I hope he has to wear an ankle bracelet now that he's out of jail.
Thank you guys (and gal) so much :0008
Kate was a trooper at the police station and because of her interview 2 more charges will be laid. She was so excited to "adopt" a stuffed animal and the officer does not expect anything more has happened then what she has said.
I told Kate that we could do something special for dinner. I was thinking pizza or mcdonald's but she says "Kraft Dinner?" :142smilie We picked up 2 cases on the way home :00hour
I found out today that the reason bail was granted was that tony has no criminal record and only 1 charge has actually been laid, the rest are coming on tuesday.
As a condition of his release tony cannot have any contact with either of the 2 families or kids under 15 or any place children may be etc., as well as a 9pm curfew so the cops are knocking on his door every hour tonight to make sure he is where he is supposed to be.
Kate was a trooper at the police station and because of her interview 2 more charges will be laid. She was so excited to "adopt" a stuffed animal and the officer does not expect anything more has happened then what she has said.
I told Kate that we could do something special for dinner. I was thinking pizza or mcdonald's but she says "Kraft Dinner?" :142smilie We picked up 2 cases on the way home :00hour
I found out today that the reason bail was granted was that tony has no criminal record and only 1 charge has actually been laid, the rest are coming on tuesday.
As a condition of his release tony cannot have any contact with either of the 2 families or kids under 15 or any place children may be etc., as well as a 9pm curfew so the cops are knocking on his door every hour tonight to make sure he is where he is supposed to be.
2 x 18 = 36 :scared
Just want you to know that you are a great inspiration to many dads out there.
I could not have said it better.
You are indeed a great inspiration to many dads out there
I have you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
I know you want to hurt this fucker, I know you want to hurt him real bad. One of the best ways to hurt someone is to take all their money and belongings. Get a good attorney and find out if there's any way you take civil action against him. I honestly don't know. But just think if there is and this guy has money you need to fuck him over by taking it from him.
I do, I REALLY do. But this desire pales in comparison for my need do help my daughters get well and thrive.
To my knowledge this "man" has never worked a day in his life and rode welfare before getting on disability because of chronic back problems, so suing for money or possessions is entirely out of the question
canuck cannot quit thinking of your children
the innocence of a child is something that should never be taken...
that sick fuck....
hope you have a good day, week, year, and continue to heal however you need too.
god bless ya buddy
the innocence of a child is something that should never be taken...
that sick fuck....
hope you have a good day, week, year, and continue to heal however you need too.
god bless ya buddy
Will never happen my friend :0008
On a positive note, Tina and I both had a good sleep for the first time in almost a week, over 9 hrs :0074
I guess I'm hesitant to post. I guess I've just wanted to forget and put out of my mind your misery....it makes it easier. I know that sounds wrong, but what you are dealing with is unconscionable. I mean I don't even know where to begin.
I have two little girls ages 4 and 6. My 6 year old lost her first tooth today. We are sitting around the breakfast table and it's loose and shes tugging and pulling and it comes out and we're saving it, taking about tooth fairy, taking pictures of her missing tooth. All is well, and about 20 seconds later, my wife is staring at me and I'm shedding a tear and she asks whats wrong. And it wasn't tears of joy, it was tears of sadness because I thought of this post. And I show it to her and she's crying. I'm sitting there crying because of your sadness and what you are going through. Here I am enjoying the ultimate time of innocence with my girls and you are going through hell because of some fcker. And that innocence is gone and can't be brought back.
I wish I was as strong as you and hope that I would make the decision you are making, but no one knows until they are in that stiuation, and hope to god no one will be.
I guess I'm rambling, but just wanted to say MJ's is a community with a bunch of people sharing the same interests, and it's just nice I'm sure for you to have a place to vent and get some things off your chest, and I hope I, or anyone else here can help you.
Just stay strong for your kids, and hold them every day. Whatever happens to this guy is gonna happen be it in jail or elsewhere. Your focus should be on the healing process and be there for them
God Bless, them, you, and all the hopes for a brighter future. If you need anything or anyone to talk to, I'm sure myself or anyone else here is there for ya.
I have two little girls ages 4 and 6. My 6 year old lost her first tooth today. We are sitting around the breakfast table and it's loose and shes tugging and pulling and it comes out and we're saving it, taking about tooth fairy, taking pictures of her missing tooth. All is well, and about 20 seconds later, my wife is staring at me and I'm shedding a tear and she asks whats wrong. And it wasn't tears of joy, it was tears of sadness because I thought of this post. And I show it to her and she's crying. I'm sitting there crying because of your sadness and what you are going through. Here I am enjoying the ultimate time of innocence with my girls and you are going through hell because of some fcker. And that innocence is gone and can't be brought back.
I wish I was as strong as you and hope that I would make the decision you are making, but no one knows until they are in that stiuation, and hope to god no one will be.
I guess I'm rambling, but just wanted to say MJ's is a community with a bunch of people sharing the same interests, and it's just nice I'm sure for you to have a place to vent and get some things off your chest, and I hope I, or anyone else here can help you.
Just stay strong for your kids, and hold them every day. Whatever happens to this guy is gonna happen be it in jail or elsewhere. Your focus should be on the healing process and be there for them
God Bless, them, you, and all the hopes for a brighter future. If you need anything or anyone to talk to, I'm sure myself or anyone else here is there for ya.
If forgetting and putting it out of you mind makes it easier for you by all means do it. Enjoy your kids cherish them and make sure they know they're loved. It is not wrong, I judge no man on what he does to benefit his family.
I started this thread to vent, and sharing has been very therapeutic. All of the comments and knowing we are in peoples prayers is very encouraging.
Thank you all :0008
I started this thread to vent, and sharing has been very therapeutic. All of the comments and knowing we are in peoples prayers is very encouraging.
Thank you all :0008
still in our thoughts canuck
hope each day is easier for the family.
your family is one im sure most can admire for the strength they have shown buddy
have a good weekend :0008
hope each day is easier for the family.
your family is one im sure most can admire for the strength they have shown buddy
have a good weekend :0008
There are a lot of us reading this and praying for you and your family. Some just don't post but we all are with you.
God Bless
God Bless
