wife- paranoid or justified concern?

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I was thinking if he just does the opposite of everything hedge says he will be alright. :shrug:

See....Hedge is a plethora of helpful information here as long as you seek his advice and go the complete opposite you are golden......:0008
 

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Stop snooping and start doing. Stop concentrating your energy on creating more negativity in the relationship - how is your wife going to react if she finds out you were snooping in her personal email?

Just talk to her about it, and tell her it bothers you. Believe it or not, that will mean a lot to a woman - jealousy shows that you care. Do it now, before it escalates to a point that you can't get her back.

Sincerely, female

If she is in a relationship she will just deny it and know that you are on to her. Do try and show her more attention or what ever you think she may need to bring you all closer together but this is going to eat you up being out of town all the time. I would definitely snoop all you can for any evidence of wrong doing before you just talk to her about it. Maybe just simple conversations but you need to find out.
 

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you got to check it out in my opinion before its too late and you need to start giving her the attention she is craving and getting from him. Or you will be divorced like me, I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy especially with small kids! I would snoop if it was me and not tell her a damn thing. She could be doing nothing wrong and hopefully that's what you find out. :toast:
 

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No time to read all the replies. You may want to consider discussing this with your wife directly. She is probably lonely with you out of town 75% of the time. If it persists, then hire a PI.

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you got to check it out in my opinion before its too late and you need to start giving her the attention she is craving and getting from him. Or you will be divorced like me, I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy especially with small kids! I would snoop if it was me and not tell her a damn thing. She could be doing nothing wrong and hopefully that's what you find out. :toast:

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Midland, Texas. Mineral Wells. A lying cocksucker named Charles Bitters, CEO American Energy Production, ripped me off for $110K back in 05/06. I'd like to beat that mutherfucker's head in with a Louisville Slugger.

And Joe Christopher :facepalm:

Do you know these fucking sleezeballs?
 

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Midland, Texas. Mineral Wells. A lying cocksucker named Charles Bitters, CEO American Energy Production, ripped me off for $110K back in 05/06. I'd like to beat that mutherfucker's head in with a Louisville Slugger.

And Joe Christopher :facepalm:

Do you know these fucking sleezeballs?

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and fats still owes you 20 bucks

let it go man
 

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Midland, Texas. Mineral Wells. A lying cocksucker named Charles Bitters, CEO American Energy Production, ripped me off for $110K back in 05/06. I'd like to beat that mutherfucker's head in with a Louisville Slugger.

And Joe Christopher :facepalm:

Do you know these fucking sleezeballs?

:topic:

:facepalm:
 

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And this one especially. They tell you how to get the facebook, the phone, the computer, everything you need to know to start the investigating.

http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=postlist&Board=71&page=1
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Now that is some fucked up shit right there. I think if you have to resort to key logger programs and iPhone tracking software, you should just pack your bags. Then again, I know some women who's husband is bouncing around on them and they do this shit because they like the drama. Now THAT is fucked up.

B, good luck to you.
 

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Now that is some fucked up shit right there. I think if you have to resort to key logger programs and iPhone tracking software, you should just pack your bags. Then again, I know some women who's husband is bouncing around on them and they do this shit because they like the drama. Now THAT is fucked up.

B, good luck to you.

Because marriage is a fucked up proposition more than half the time, people need to resort to this crap to cover their ass. Covering your ass is never a bad idea.

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